Flowers for Flatboy: The Memoirs of Aaron Abbot -or- (Self-Portrait of the Artist Formerly Known as Flatboy) It's been several years now since that book changed my life. It sounds so silly to write 'that book changed my life,' it's one of those expressions people have invented to pay homage to pop-psych over pulp. But the day that book fell into my hands, my life changed forever. Now I just need to figure out why. I guess that's the whole point of these memoirs... Dr. Schroeder told me that recording everything I can about my life before, will help us figure out the root of my illness. I don't see the point. I feel like I've adjusted pretty well, but Amy still gets nervous about new things and she really trusts Dr. Schroeder. Hopefully, whatever emerges will be able to help her. Let me try to start at the beginning. I'm Aaron, my wife is Amy. We named ourselves on the day we were married; our first day in three dimensions. Our names are a tribute to the book that changed our lives. Just as Edwin Abott Abott narrates through A Square - a play on his own initials, my name has a doubled 'A' and Amy's has only one. We owe a lot to that book and to whoever it was who dropped it on me at the right time in my life. For as long as I can remember, I could only see in my plane. I guess on some levels, I must have been aware of things outside of my plane but I just ignored them. I was always aware when my aunt would be speaking to me. When she'd come in to leave food for me -- I would always wave to her even though I couldn't see her. I never saw my Aunt the way I can see people now. I could see her one slice at a time. When Amy and I were in Graceland, there was an image of Elvis painted on a ton of little hanging beads. Like the kind they hang over doorways in movie-brothels. When they all hung together, you could see the King playing the guitar, but each strand was only a bunch of alternating colors. The way I used to see the world was like watching these strands one at a time. To me, my aunt was just like an Elvis filament. My depth-perception is still terrible. For years, I never used my left eye. It's not like I wore an eye-patch, or closed it... I think my brain just ignored its input, or didn't focus it -- like the House of Lords or something. My right eye was always inclined towards the wall and narrowed to allow only a sliver of the world in at a time. I didn't think about any of this at the time. Who ever thinks that the way they see the world is his choice?!? I only figured out that one-eye stuff, by trying to recreate my old point of view in the lobby of our old building. I was mashing myself against the wall and squinting all funny when the super walked by. That guy never liked us after Amy flipped out in the elevator. Shouldn't those things make sense to her? It's like pasta...how can a girl from a linear existence have such an aversion to PASTA?!? That reminds me of eating. My aunt would bring me food every day and be real careful about lining it up where I could see it. When I went back, I saw a stripe that marked my plane, all the way around the room. I guess that's why she never missed when she needed me to see things... I remember when she put that stripe in, but I thought she painted the whole room. The rest of my room could have been yellow and I never would have noticed -- I hate yellow!!! Hell, there didn't even have to be a 'rest of my room'. Imagine how cheap it would be to build housing for nuts like me. They could stick hundreds of us stomach to back and we'd all think we were in complete privacy. That thought really freaks me out! Did I share my room with anyone? (Amy could have had an apartment in a wine-rack). To solve the housing crisis in NYC, we need to make everyone just a little more loony, and design buildings that are nothing but hallways...But back to eating. It was always difficult for me to pick my food up and convey it to my mouth. I needed mushy foods that I could pick up without bending my fingers. Ustensils were definitely out of the question. I can remember my aunt feeding me things before. I think she stopped when she stopped talking to me. She must have decided that this wasn't just a phase. Or maybe she was sick of 'enabling' my madness. Who knows. It's probably reasonable to assume that someone will give up an obsession with funny behavior if it means nothing but starches and water for years on end. But like I said, I never understood that my existence was a choice. I had no options. I'd spear whatever food I could see in my plane on the end of my middle finger, or I could catch it between my fingers, making scissor motions. Then I'd have to tilt my head back and try to maneuver some part of the food into my mouth. I could always handle flat foods, like pancakes, or bread, or pizza... When I'd grab those, they could always make it into my mouth within my plane. But once, she brought me hot-dogs. I I could see them on the plate (she'd never miss the line), and they looked to me like red circles. I reached out and scissored one of them. I could pick it up and move the circle up towards my mouth. But when I tried to drop the circle into my open mouth, the ends of the hot-dog I couldn't see bounced off the corners of my mouth and the circle fell and disappeared. At first my Aunt was really pissed at the mess I'd made, but shen she put them back on the plate and saw the trouble I was having, she turned them for me. Once I could see a long red capsule shape, not a circle, I could scissor that and easily maneuver it into my mouth. That day, I learned to love hot-dogs, but then I never got them again. Maybe it was too much of a pain for her to orient the food in my plain. More likely, it was the whole tough-love, food boredom strategy. I wonder if she actually beleived that one day I'd snap and say: "Bread again?!? forget it, I'm going for sushi." But who am I to make fun of the ridiculous things people can start to believe? If anything that would have driven me to leave my plane of existence, it would have been the loneliness more than the food. I can't count my Aunt as an acquaintance of mine. I never saw her in full, and to this day, have only seen picures. It took me a long long time to even want to go back and see that room again. But when I did, and saw that stripe, and saw the front of the TV I'd always heard. Those objects with which I was so familiar, I could finally see them head-on! When that book first fell into my hands, I couldn't put together that I was in the same room. I didn't understand that much. I wanted to climb into the television. I wanted to climb into everything that day!!! I don't make those mistakes anymore. I really do think I'm pretty well adjusted to the 3D world I'm living in. It must be more of an adjustment for Amy though. She never really had to interact with objects in her past life-line. The most contact she would ever have had was to bump into something and then recoil from it. Even I tend to think she must have been a little more than eccentric. She doesn't understand yet that her former life was caused by her own mental illness. She just thinks it was some kind of miracle. I don't know how to handle that really. The only reason I was able to help her at all was because I was just as crazy as she was-- well almost anyway. I don't know why I was so shocked that Amy couldn't read. I should have been a lot more shocked that I could! This is one of the few clues I have that I wasn't born with the delusion of a 2D existence. I know for sure that I don't remember anything before I went nuts but I sure as hell didn't learn to read that way. When that book fell into my hands, not only did I break all the rules of my existence by grabbing it, but I knew how to read it. That's something I'd like Dr. Schroeder to explain to me. The only rational explanation is that my Aunt, or maybe even my parents (if I ever had any) taught me to read, then something must have happened to drive me into the plane. Did my parents leave me? Did that make me scared enough to retreat from reality? Maybe my retreat into the plane was a subconscious attempt to always know where I stood. Some kind of early trauma may have scared me that much. It's always made some kind of allegorical sense to me that I didn't ever want to be blind-sided by life. That's just not possible when everything you deal with is in your plane. Just back yourself against the wall, and nothing but noises can change, they're the only thing. I didn't put much stock in noises though. With the TV going all the time, I couldn't ever understand what I was hearing. I can't remember a time when I tried to respond to my Aunt. But the minute I left the plane I could communicate pretty well. I wandered into some kind of a restaurant and ordered food. I ORDERED FOOD! Within hours I could read and I could speak. Two skills I don't remember acquiring. If it was a trauma that sent me into the plane, it was a trauma that pulled me back out. Like I said, that book changed my life. I've been through hypnosis before. To try to go back to the time when I think the first big shock must have been. I haven't really figured anything out though. It must have been pretty severe to be buried so deep and locked up so tight! But every time I start to think like that, I realize how much worse Amy's life must have been. She was driven into a line I A one-dimensional existence! Who knows how many years she spent slithering around the world on her side; arms outstretched; trying to drag herself along like a snake. Whatever it was that drove her over the edge must have occured earlier in her life than mine did; before she learned how to read. It's also buried deeper in her mind. She's scared of her past. Amy refused to go under hypnosis with me. She also refuses to admit that we both used to be crazy. She prefers to think that we were just granted this life in 3D because of our responsibility in the lower dimensions. She really thinks this warped world is heaven!!! Best of luck Dr. Schroeder, I hope this helps you. Really I hope it can help my wife, but I'm not all that confident. Only time will tell. Aaron.